Birds, Bees and Destinies

The Chat: Birds, Bees and Destinies is a full-colour English picture book designed to help parents talk to their children about sex. Complete with tips for parents and a glossary, this book is a tool for parents to make the chat relaxed, fun and conversational. It is designed to be read to a child by a parent or care-giver.

Price ZAR150 excl delivery.
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Bytjies, Blommetjies en Kosbare Lewens

Dié Geprek: Bytjies, blommetjies en kosbare lewens, is ‘n volkleur geïllustreerde kinderboek geskryf met die doel om ouers te help om met hul kinders oor seks te praat. Met wenke vir ouers en ‘n woordelys ingesluit, dien hierdie boek as ‘n hulpmiddel vir ouers om dié praatjie op ‘n onstpanne, prettige en geselserige trant te benader. Dit is só ontwerp om deur ’ ouer of versorger aan ‘n kind voorgelees te word.

Price ZAR150 excl delivery.
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Available from all major booksellers and online platforms including Exclusive Books, Bargain Books, CUM and Loot


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Reader reviews
“It’s brilliant! I feel like I have been given a get-out-of-jail-free card!”
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Mom of Nick aged 8
“It went down so well and the book made it so easy. It is something I have been dreading for a while and I feel so good that I’ve done it and set the scene for ongoing questions and conversations.”
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Dad of sons aged 7 & 9
“There are two voices in this book: the clear and balanced one giving the facts blended beautifully with a second voice which is full of heart conviction that each of us is created with purpose.”
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Helen Bredenkamp
Personal and Professional Coach


#wellconnected: How to  be safe, wise & kind online is a book for young digital users, exploring the online space for the first time. Lots of things can go wrong when we are online: we can make some big mistakes and we can see stuff we wish we hadn’t.  But that doesn’t have to be the case. This book aims to help you be safe, wise and kind as you find your way around cyberspace and navigate online connections.Complete with conversation starters, helpful tips and a family digital contract, #wellconnected is designed to be read by kids and discussed by families. Mostly it is a tool to catalyse open conversation and build deep connection.

Price ZAR150 excl delivery.
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The Chat 101:
A video-based course for groups

 The Chat 101, a five-part video-based course  to equip parents and care-givers of children aged 2-12 to talk about sex to their children. 

The course is designed to be held over five sessions: Let’s Talk About Sex; The Why; The Who; The How; The What and When (with age guide).

The download includes all sessions, a leader’s guide and photocopiable participants’ notes.

Price ZAR750

Participants' feedback
It exceeded my expectations, it made me look into myself first before I can engage my children as well, I loved that.  It answered all my questions."
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Mom of three
I was literally in the wilderness regarding this topic.  Thank you for helping me  on my way to greater educated days."
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Husband and dad
Yes, it was brilliant. I am feeling more confident about having the chat with my daughter.  I have also learnt how important it is to speak about this, and see why I have grown up with a warped view of sex, as I was not educated about it.
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